Find your way back to freedom

Welcome to the place where we get honest, ask important questions, and decide to transform everything that isn't working.

You may have seen other people quit drinking / using (or whatever your thing is), while you keep tripping up again and again. You've read the books, researched online, and tried to motivate yourself enough to finally quit.

And you...just...can't. It sucks. I know.

I was trapped in that place for many years. I was also confused as hell because sobriety was like dieting - everyone had a different version and none of them seem to work for me. Drinking was wrecking me, but so was the self-shame I felt about myself. Ughk.

Sounds familiar? Take a deep breath. I found a way out - and my mission today is to teach you all I know - and help you find a way that finally works.

Ready to a start a new possibility? Let's go. 


So - what is this course?

This course equivalent to the first 3 months of my Recovery Coaching program; every valuable lesson you need to start your journey of sobriety and transformation.

It's all I wish I'd known when I was stuck in my drinking and didn't know how the hell to start feeling better. #buildingblocks

Here, you'll learn the facts about addiction, the multiple roads to recovery, the way to find self-forgiveness, a badass new set of tools and your actionable next-steps. No b.s. here, my love.

This is the first step on your journey - whether this is your first try with sobriety or your 20th.

Baby (badass) steps, with my hand holding yours at all times. 

Feet forward, head high. #fuckshame #letsgo

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My recovery from alcohol addiction has been the most magnificent journey of transformation. It’s had ups and downs, and yet it’s been perfect. I’ve struggled. I’ve grown. I’ve relapsed. I've gotten sober again and now I live a badass version of my life. Even my worst day in recovery beats my best day in addiction.

I want this for you. I want you to feel that light in the middle of your chest, telling you there is hope. I want you to ditch that toxic behavior or addiction, and start living a sober, badass life of freedom.

This work is about becoming your own hero - and I am here to teach you how.

Who is this course for?

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The sober-curious

You may be curiously wondering if quitting drinking (or whatever your thing is) would make your life better. Yeah, babeh, yeah.

I have concepts, ideas and new possibilities for you to explore - and step into your best life. Let's go. 

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The addicted, like me.

That's my thing, and I am proud of it. Because everything good is on the other side of addiction - in recovery. I can help you get there. 

A badass life awaits - not in spite of your addiction, but because of it. Let's go

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The unhappily sober

Sobriety by itself is just abstinence - and it sucks. Recovery is a whole other thing. It's a journey of radical transformation. 

I am here to show you the way forward, so that where you are is only temporary. Let's go.

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"I've fallen in and out of sobriety for years, and I always thought it was because there was something wrong with me.

This course explained things so clearly, and put everything into a different perspective than the one I had. Pamela helped me understand there's nothing wrong with me, and design a plan that's made me feel hopeful.

So far - I'm a month in!"

Marianne M.

At the end of these 11 lessons you will learn: 

  • The Curve and Cycle of Addiction  - and how they're affecting your mind and body. 
  • Why willpower, shame, guilt and blame aren't relevant to this process.
  • The inner shift needed to begin true and lasting change.
  • Why you can't quit drinking by just "quitting" drinking.
  • The paradox of being powerless over your substance or behavior while claiming more power than ever.
  • What “Recovery” and how is it different than "Sobriety"?
  • What are the different "Paths to Recovery"? (There are many!)
  • Do's and Don'ts for sober success
  • New tools for your Recovery Toolkit: Daily practices and habits for connection and joy.
  • Defining your plan of action and next steps so this becomes YOUR badass recovery journey. 


Here’s what you get:

  • 11 video coaching lessons
  • 4 hours of clear, bold, unfiltered information
  • 11 supporting worksheets to enhance the teachings
  • Direct email access to Pamela for the duration of your course
  • Lifetime access to your lessons, from any device.
  • 30 minute session with Pamela, upon course completion 
  • Discount on your other courses, just by being a student of this one.


You’re ready.


As you can probably guess, this course isn’t a magic pill. I’ll give you my most badass coaching, but you have to do the work. You have to do the digging. You have to stay honest. Most importantly, you have to take action on the program or journey of recovery you choose, and apply the tools I give you.

My promise is that I won’t let go of your hand and I won't b.s. you with stuff that does now work. I've got you. I believe in you. 

Let's do this.





Less than what I used to spend a month in booze. Less than rehab, Less than therapy. Less than in-patient clinics. Less than 1-on-1 recovery coaching sessions. 

Because I want sobriety + transformation for you, I am dropping the price for the first 3 months of 2020 - so this can become the best decade of your life.

Isn't it time you invest in your healing?

Get your discounted course for $399 - limited time only.
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I've been through programs before and got sober for a while, but now find myself in the same drinking hell at 69. I've now understood that I DO have a choice between continuing like this - or finally making the shift and living in freedom. I had never looked at it that starkly before this course.

I think I will be saying thank  you a lot!

Mary S.

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