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LET'S WORK 1:1

Whether you are trying to find "sobriety that sticks"...

or

You are already sober, but want to stop feeling disconnected,

weird and shame-y about your sobriety...

 

I'd be honored to walk this journey with you. Let's get you sober and feeling amazing about it, shall we?

IT BEGINS WITH DROPPING THE SHAME.

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • I spent 5 years living with "just sobriety". Yes, I was abstinent...but I was not happy.
  • Secretly, I hated being sober - I felt like sobriety was a punishment.
  • Naturally, I avoided talking about my sobriety, and constantly felt FOMO (and shame).
  • At some point - I drank again. It took me 2 years to find sobriety again.
  • I realized there had to be another way. I found it.
  • Working together, I'll help you find the secret narratives that are keeping you stuck - so you can set yourself free.
  • We will discover a shame-free, love-fueled new way to do recovery - so you can fall in love with yourself and your recovery.

 

My job is to take your hand as you discover a new, empowered, beautiful sobriety. One that you can feel proud of. One that feels deeply YOURS.

SOBRIETY IS JUST THE BEGINNING

"Despite getting sober a few years ago, I felt something was missing. 

I was worried I was headed towards a drink, not away from one. About 2 years ago, I found a reference to a "sober badass" that caught my attention. That is how I met Pamela.

As my coach, Pamela made me realize growth wasn't about just not drinking - but changing my thought process to grow as a person and reach my real goals. Through what Pamela calls "project Pete", I'm on the right path, because I have a new strength in me. That strength keeps me sober, and makes me feel like a better man.

Muchas gracias, Pamela"

- Peter Stone - Coaching client.

IN YOUR BACK POCKET AT ALL TIMES.

  • When you hire me as your 1:1 mentor, I'm in your back-pocket at all times. We'll work via zoom once a week, and connect via texts between sessions. You will feel supported and guided at all times. 

  •  Whether it's getting you sober or adding fire your sobriety, I will take your hand and discover the best path forward - one that works for you.

  • Sobriety is an invitation to discover a completely new YOU.  The only thing you need? To get out of your own way, and get adventurous about your path.

     

    We'll discover an unapologetically sober, new YOU. 

"HOW DOES IT WORK?"

I meet with my clients one hour a week (virtually).

The first meeting is to understand where you are at.

I don’t do any formulaic coaching – I meet everyone wherever they are on the journey. 

In our first session, we’ll get to know each other a bit and I'll ask you questions that will help me design a plan of action for you.

Over the next few sessions, we I'll implement the coaching needed to achieve the goals we set. In between sessions I will recommend books, podcasts, and anything I get called to bring into our journey.  

I'll also make myself available to you via text, so you can reach out with any questions you may have.

In most cases I meet with my clients once a week for about 6 weeks (6 sessions).

After that, we meet every couple of weeks, or even once a month.

There are no commitments, you decide if this is working for you or not – I have never had anyone not stick with the journey, but I want you to know that I don’t have you commit to anything other than showing up to our first appointment.

My job as your coach is to help you identify what is stopping you from stepping into your power (your old stories, narratives, old roles, old beliefs, etc) – and help create a plan to own your story powerfully.

I am here to walk this path with you.

The goal?

For you to discover a sober, new version of YOU that you abso-freaking-lutely love.

I'M MORE PEACEFUL AND CONFIDENT

"Thank you for your courses and coaching, Pamela. I’m so much more peaceful and confident. My morning routine is solid since last April. Have written a two-way letter literally every morning since 4/24/21, and I haven’t had a drink since then. More importantly, I’m consistently honest with myself and genuinely nurturing my spirit. There still plenty more growth to go but that’s the exciting part, no? "

- Carney M. O'Brian - Student and coaching client 

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