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You started drinking

to   

But now

drinking

is doing the opposite

AND YOU’RE SO READY.

  • To wake up without guilt or shame

  • To be present for those you love

  • To trust yourself and be proud of who you are

YOU KNOW IT’S TIME.

Some days you feel ready to stop drinking – some days you don’t. But deep inside, you know it’s time. You know you were meant for something bigger than being stuck in this cycle of booze-insanity and survival. You just don’t know how to get out.

If this is you, you’re in the right place.

YOU’RE NOT ALONE.

I’ve been exactly where you are. Red wine was part of my identity. I called it “my best friend” - until it turned on me.

My “I’m done” moment came in 2009, when I drove my 9-year-old, drunk, and almost killed us. I went to AA and got sober – but I was secretly miserable. Sobriety felt like punishment. I drank again.

It took me a few more years to crack the code on how to get sober once more.

This time, I was determined to find a completely different kind of sobriety.

I DID.

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What I Know

It’s not about saying no to alcohol.

It’s about saying yes to you.

Sobriety is not punishment.

It’s the door to re-writing your life.

So - when you’re done hurting yourself...

“I’m here to help you claim your Freedom with a capital freaking F!”

¡Hola!

I'm Pamela

I help people quit drinking and find their most powerful and badass selves through a sobriety that opens the door to their personal revolution.

Spoiler alert: I’m an alcoholic of the garden variety. While I don’t need you to label yourself as anything, I’m proud to call myself an alcoholic in recovery. Frankly, I wear that label like a badge of honor. Because it is.

I have the creds: I’m a speaker, podcast host and meditation teacher. I’m also a Certified Professional Recovery Coach, Life Coach and SHE RECOVERS COACH.

Truth? What helps me guide you are not the creds. It’s the 15+ years in my journey of recovery. Frankly, I've been in all the places along the road - from mediocre sobriety to relapsing to finding a pretty badass recovery. That's what qualifies me to help you.

I've been in the hole, and I know the way out.

If you're here to quit drinking...

I want you to browse and see what gets you curious. BUT. I also want you to take action - even if it's just a baby step. Watch the free class: "How to find a badass sobriety"

REGISTER NOW (you can watch later)

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Today

My students and clients have discovered a new way of doing life. They’ve quit drinking by tapping into the warrior within. They are rebels. Stigma-breakers. Shame-ditchers.

They are proud of who they’ve become and have learned ways of being present to their lives, no matter what comes their way. They trust themselves.

Their loved ones can see the change in them, sure. But it’s how they feel about themselves that makes all the difference.

NOW IT’S YOUR TURN

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MY PROCESS

The Badass Recovery Process

helps you break the cycle for good and all.
I designed this framework using my insight from “within the mind of an addict” (don’t fear the term, it’s a superpower that helps me understand things that others don’t.) This process will give you radical clarity and practical tools, so you can build a sobriety you’re proud of, and never have to have another Day One.

Your "Deep Yes"

People think it begins with a decision to stop drinking. But some of us don’t have the ability to decide to quit. That’s not how our mind works. We must decide from a different place. Clarity + compassion + ownership are the building blocks of our mindset shift as we begin.

Your Early Sobriety

This is where we grow our sea-legs in our new life sans booze. We’ll arm ourselves with new tools, concepts, and habits, shedding shame and victimhood along the way. It's about laying the foundation for sobriety that sticks.

Your Action Path

Sobriety is like marathon training, but with cake. We’ll craft a detailed plan through a program, M-B-S toolkit, and community. We don’t wait to “feel like doing” something – we do it because we said we would.

Your (R)evolution.

Once you've got your sobriety sea-legs, it's time for transformation. We’ll get under the hood of your drinking as we learn new mindsets and behaviors that will shift everything. The goal? Resiliency. Integrity. A new YOU that you can feel proud of.

WATCH THE FREE "HOW TO FIND A BADASS SOBRIETY" CLASS

SO WHERE SHOULD YOU GET STARTED?

DO YOU WANT TO QUIT DRINKING?

Start with my signature online masterclass, “A NEW, SOBER YOU.”

This offer includes 3 courses

  • The video course SOBRIETY 101. Twelve lessons to walk you through the ABCs of ditching the drink and reclaiming your life.

  • The audio course 30-DAYS of EARLY SOBRIETY. Thirty audio coachings to help you navigate the first stage of sobriety with both tenderness and empowerment.

  • The audio course EMERGENCY CRAVING TOOLKIT. How to survive a craving to drink when it hits (and it will), so you don’t have another Day One again.

Not ready for this large offer? Snag the EMERGENCY CRAVING TOOLKIT for only $29 and get a baby step in.

I need this, tell me more

DO YOU WANT PERSONAL SUPPORT?

Work with me privately in my MENTORSHIP program

Whether you’re sober-curious, ready to quit, stuck in codependency, wanting to grow your sobriety or anywhere in between, hiring me as your coach is the fastest way to get results.

Using the Badass Recovery framework, the sessions are custom-tailored to you and your needs. There’s no formulaic coaching – you are unique, and so should your recovery.

learn more and let’s get on a free call

ARE YOU SOBER, BUT “MEH"..?

If you’re already sober and ready to begin your real
(R)evolution:

Join me in the Badass Recovery private community (coming 2024) and get access to:

  • The “I’M SOBER, NOW WHAT?” course modules with Coach Alyssa and Pamela

  • Mentorship videos, resources, tips and tricks to add fire to your sobriety

  • Monthly live Q&A with Alyssa and Pamela

  • A community of badass warriors growing their sobriety, just like you

oh, hell yes

¿HABLAS ESPAÑOL?

Here’s the course para ti.

Hola, cariño. Por supuesto que tengo un curso en español para mi gente. Tu mejor inversión para pararle a la tomadera y volver a ser libre una vez más.

Cuéntame más, YA

WANT THE SOBRIETY  JOURNAL?

THE UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL.

No matter where you are on the journey, this journal will be your best friend for 90 days and be deliciously selfish. Coaching guidance, a plan of action, a sobriety toolkit, and accountability. Boom.

I need this now

What’s this badass thing anyway...?

Stop clutching your pearls.

A BADASS:

More than a term, it’s a badge of honor worn by those who defy norms and embrace their inner strength.

A badass doesn't just face challenges—they embrace them with grit and resilience.

They’re rebels, stomping on society’s stigma and status quo.

They’re bold. Unfiltered. Unapologetic.

They don’t tap out. They show up to their lives, no matter what.

They weather the storm - because they are the storm.

 

Are you ready to step into your badass?

DON'T LEAVE WITHOUT ENROLLING IN THE FREE MASTERCLASS

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PODCAST

The Badass Recovery Podcast. A podcast about ditching shame and finding your power through recovery. Find it on every platform now.

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