2020 is your year of transformation
"Nothing changes until something changes."
For decades, I drank too much. I kept telling myself I would quit "tomorrow" - but the next day, I would drink, then say "tomorrow", again. It was a cycle of slavery (and a ton of shame) that sucked. Hard.
Through willpower and "decision" I would string a few days without drinking. Soon, I would start coming out of my skin.
I then realized I had two problems:
- I didn't really know how to stop drinking.
- I didn't really know how to live without the drinking.
I was stuck. I was terrified.
Until the day that everything changed.
The day that I decided to stop focusing on the "drinking" - and I decided to start focusing on the "living".
Sounds interesting? it is.
I had to sit down and take a deep breath.
The first thing I had to understand was that nobody was going to do this for me. Only I could make the decision to change.
I realized I had a problem with drinking, yes. But there was more.
- I had a problem with victimhood. I loved playing small in order to justify my drinking.
- I had a problem with integrity with my word. I had 1000 excuses, and kept giving myself a pass, daily.
- I had a problem of self-trust. I could not trust myself to do what I said I would.
- I had a problem with honesty. I kept pretending I had shit under control.
I'd been asking the wrong question.
The question was not "how can I quit drinking?"
The question was: "How can I start transforming my relationship with myself and my life?
In order to answer that question, first I had to step into a place of ownership.
Next, I had to do the work of transformation.
Ready to start getting serious about this?
Welcome to your journey
Yes. This is your journey.
This means it does not need to look like anyone else's.
Nobody needs to give you permission.
Only you can do the work.
Where to start? 4 steps:
1. Check out the FAQ's below to learn more about my message, services and offerings.
2. Listen to the free meditation on Owning your Truth in Addiction (below). It's time to feel empowered and remember you CAN do this.
3. Browse through the Courses and Resources and pick your next step (remember, nothing changes until you take action).
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Let's start to create a recovery journey that is 100% you.
Xx - Pamela
From your heart, to mine.
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This is where you take action and ditch the "tomorrow" b.s.
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