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TRYING TO DO IT ALONE IS HARD.

 

If you're like me, you've tried over and over to no avail. Maybe you were able to move forward, but got stuck. Two steps forward, one step back. 

Truth? Moments like these feel hopeless. But if you take a deep breath and are willing to shift, they're golden invitations.

I took a leap and hired a mentor in 2017, when I was stuck in a drinking relapse.

It was a scary decision. I didn't know if she would get me or be able to help me.

Investing in myself was hard because I was broke (financially and emotionally) but I knew I couldn't continue wasting my days away. Truth?

IT WAS THE BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE.

IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE YOU'RE AT.

 

Mentorship is powerful because it will meet you wherever you are in the process. 

  • Not ready to quit...but aware that something's off with you and drinking
  • Ready to get sober, but scared of going to AA (or have been burned before)
  • Willing to do anything to stop, but¬†no¬†clue of where to start
  • Have taken my courses and ready to deepen¬†your path
  • Or perhaps you're sober, but it¬†ain't that great and need a "sobriety¬†kickstart"
  • Booze is not the problem¬†- but something's not quite right, inside...

I've got your back.

NO. MORE. SHAME.

How many "Day Ones" have you had?

I had a ridiculous amount. Each held a glimmer of hope, but it never changed. The shame of how I acted when I drank, and of  "failing" again, was unbearable. Shame was my second skin. The more I drank, the more shame I felt. The more shame I felt, the more I drank. I was stuck in a toxic loop. Have you ever felt like that? That's where we'll begin. Dropping the shame so you can finally breathe. 

KATE K. Mentorship client

"I was in denial for a long time, but my daily wine was becoming a problem. I loved this journey with you because I understood how to think about things in a completely new way. I'm now 4 months sober and really loving my new life."

Fifteen+ years on the journey 

of recovery...

Over the last decade and a half, I've been through every twist and turn of the journey, from utterly hopeless from a relapse in 2014 - to sharing my story in front of thousands. I know what it's like to feel trapped and to be set free.

When you're struggling with alcohol, plenty of people want to help‚ÄĒtherapists, friends, family. But unless they've wrestled with the insanity of drinking themselves, they won't really understand. I do.

I've been right where you are and I know the way forward and out.

I believe in a journey that's packed with both self-compassion and personal responsibility. I believe you are unique, so there's no "one-size-fits-all." Your story is specific to you, and so should your recovery plan.

I'm not here to push you. That's your call. But I'll say it one more time:

We can do this, together. I know we can.

PETER S. Mentorship client

"Despite getting sober a few years ago, something was missing. I was worried I was headed towards a drink, not away from one. Pamela made me realize growth wasn't about just not drinking - but changing my thought process as a person, to reach my life goals. Through what she calls "Project Pete," I'm on a new path that keeps me sober and helps me feel like a better man. Muchas gracias, Pamela"

How does mentorship work?

"If I could wave a magic wand, what would you change in your life?"

Whether it's drinking less, quitting for good, ditching a toxic relationship, or re-designing yourself entirely, mentorship can get you there.

You have one, precious life, remember? This is how you reclaim it. 

We'll meet on Zoom, one hour a week. There are single sessions, but I recommend the 7-session package, your roadmap from point A to B.

First we'll figure out where you're at, and craft a customized plan. No cookie-cutter stuff ‚ÄĒI'm all about personalizing your path.

Between sessions, I'll suggest books, podcasts, and stay reachable by text whenever you need me. Yes, you heard me. I'm in your back pocket at all times.

After our intensive seven weeks, we'll adjust the frequency to match your needs. You're in control, always.

Our goal? To upgrade your life through a powerful new approach. Ready to uncover the sober, proud, fully alive version of you? 

LET'S CHAT 

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MY PROCESS

The Badass Recovery Process

 

Crafted from insights "within the mind of an addict" (don't fret, it's my superpower), this framework¬†stems from five years of sobriety, a two-year period of relapse, and¬†a¬†radically new entry into sobriety eight years ago. Fifteen years¬†on my own journey‚ÄĒand counting.

Experience has refined a path that's both compassionate and accountable.

You'll discover deep clarity and practical tools. While sobriety is a focus, we'll delve deeper, exploring topics like codependency and the narratives from your past that need rewriting. Every dimension of your humanity is embraced. It's about¬†feeling proud, empowered, and deeply in love with your life‚ÄĒno more Day Ones.¬†

This is your (R)evolution.

CARNEY O. Mentorship client

"I’m so much more peaceful and confident. My morning routine has been solid since you helped me develop it. I have written a two-way letter literally every morning since 4/24/21, and I haven’t had a drink since then. More importantly, I’m consistently honest with myself and genuinely nurturing my spirit. There still plenty more growth to go but that’s the exciting part, no?"

WHERE SHOULD YOU BEGIN?

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Once you do, I'll reach out via text or email, so we can find a time that works for both. We'll have a phone call and explore what's going on in your life, how we can work together - and if mentorship is the next best step for you. Simple.

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If we've spoken already, or you're ready to leap...

Then let's go! It takes three seconds of bravery to change your life. I'm so proud you're doing this.

Your future self is doing a celebratory salsa dance!

I will send you the payment link via text or email. Payment plans are available - I have options to make this work for you. Boom. 

What if I'm not quite ready to start...?

"Your one, precious life."

Truth? Nobody feels fully ready to start. It's kind of the nature of the beast.

It's not my job to convince you, either. You're the only one that can give yourself permission to take this leap. Period.

But.

I can tell you that over the last seven years, I've seen countless lives recover their light. I've helped men, women, and non-binary folk get their joy back. It's pretty freaking magical to see someone claim their freedom and love themselves in a new way. It's the biggest honor of my life to help them.

Yes - you can always start by taking my online course, A NEW, SOBER YOU, and getting the UNAPOLOGETICALLY SOBER JOURNAL as a first step. 

But if you've read this far and you're serious about changing your life, then book a clarity call with me. It's easy and there's no stings attached. 

You're one step closer to your badass life.

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