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If it’s a fit, we go deeper.
BOOK YOUR CALL.DOING IT ALONE IS HARD.
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You’re tired of breaking promises at 3 a.m.—heart pounding, whispering “Tomorrow, I’ll stop.”
You’ve built a life that looks polished—successful, high-functioning, even enviable. But booze has become your secret chain. The habit that drags you under while the world applauds your shine.
Here’s the truth:
You’re not broken.
You’re just stuck in a cycle that’s impossible to break on your own.
You’ve tried to cut back. To convince yourself it’s fine.
But something deeper in you knows—it’s not.
Now picture this:
You wake up clear. No guilt, no fog, no shame spiral.
You walk into the dinner, the meeting, the party—and you own the room.
Not a drop in your system, and still the most magnetic person there.
Your body feels strong. Your energy’s steady.
And instead of barely getting through the day, you're thinking:
What else am I capable of? What’s next?
MENTORSHIP GETS YOU THERE. FAST.
IT'S TIME TO RECLAIM YOU.
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Sobriety isn't just about not drinking. It’s about taking your power back—fully—and stepping into the strongest, clearest, most unapologetic version of you.
You’ll learn how to break the craving loop at the root, and build a life that feels bold, grounded, and undeniably yours—sans booze.
Sobriety isn’t a punishment. It’s your becoming. That powerful version of you? They’ve been waiting under the fog.
I'll meet you exactly where you are. Whether you’re...
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Not ready to quit—but starting to feel the cracks.
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Craving change—but turned off by AA or labels.
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Willing to try anything—but lost on what actually works.
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Hopeless. Except for that bit of fire you feel when you read these lines.
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Sober—but bored, stuck, or wondering “is this it?”
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Anywhere in between.
I've got your back.
NO. MORE. SHAME.
How many "Day Ones" have you had?
I had more than I can count. Each one carried hope—followed by regret. Every slip fed the shame. Shame led me to drink. Again. More drinking = more self-hate. Which fueled more drinking. A brutal loop.Â
That's where we'll begin.
Burning down the shame, so you can breathe.Â
KATE K. Mentorship client
"I was in denial for a long time, but my daily wine was becoming a problem. I loved this journey with you because I understood how to think about things in a completely new way. I'm now 4 months sober and really loving my new life."
15+ years in.
Still on fire.
I’ve lived every corner of this path—rock bottom, relapse, the shame spiral, the comeback. I’ve been on the bathroom floor... and on stage, telling the truth to thousands.
So yeah—I get it.
Therapists mean well. Friends try. But unless you’ve lived the chaos of drinking, you don’t get it. I do.
Recovery isn’t one-size-fits-all. Your path should match you.
That’s why I mix fierce compassion with radical responsibility—and help you carve a way out that actually works.
I’m not here to drag you.
I’m here to walk with you—until you remember who the hell you are.
PETER S. Mentorship client
"Despite getting sober a few years ago, something was missing. I was worried I was headed towards a drink, not away from one. Pamela made me realize growth wasn't about just not drinking - but changing my thought process as a person, to reach my life goals. Through what she calls "Project Pete," I'm on a new path that keeps me sober and helps me feel like a better man. Muchas gracias, Pamela"
 How does mentorship work?
It starts with one question:
“If I could wave a magic wand, what would you change in your life?”
This is where real change begins—whether it’s quitting booze, breaking toxic cycles, or building a life that finally feels like your own.
*7 weeks of 1:1 Zoom calls—one hour each week
*In-between support via voice + text—I'm in your pocket
*Lifetime access to my signature online recovery courses
*Includes the Unapologetically Sober journal to track your growth
*Custom tools, resources, and a process that works.
When the 7 weeks wrap, we check in, reflect, and decide together what comes next. You’re always in control.
This is a high-level commitment with high-level results.Â
Your life will change completely. This is not therapy. It's a 90 day revolution. It’s time—and deep down, you know it.
LET'S CHATÂ
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MY PROCESS
The Badass Recovery Process
Built from the inside—the real inside.
Five years sober. Two years relapsed.
Eight years rising into a sobriety that finally fit.
Fifteen years of lived truth, not theory.
This isn’t textbook recovery.
It’s raw, compassionate, accountable-as-hell transformation.
Crafted from the mind of an addict—because that’s my superpower.
We go beyond “just don’t drink.”
We untangle codependency and shame. We rewrite the stories that have kept you small. We get brutally clear—and beautifully free.
This isn’t about perfection.
It’s about becoming someone you’re proud to be.
No more Day Ones. No more hiding.
Just your full, whole self—empowered and in love with your life.
NO MORE HIDING. IT'S TIME TO RISE.
CARNEY O. Mentorship client
"I’m so much more peaceful and confident. My morning routine has been solid since you helped me develop it. I have written a two-way letter literally every morning since 4/24/21, and I haven’t had a drink since then. More importantly, I’m consistently honest with myself and genuinely nurturing my spirit. There still plenty more growth to go but that’s the exciting part, no?"
WHERE TOÂ BEGIN?
BOOK YOUR CLARITY CALLÂ
Fill out a quick form.
Then we’ll jump on a call—real talk, no pressure.
We’ll explore what’s going on, what you need, and whether Mentorship is your next move.
Simple. Personal. Powerful.
Book my complimentary callGET MENTORSHIP
Three seconds of bravery.
That’s all it takes to start—even if you don’t trust yourself yet.
That’s okay. You can trust me.
I’ve led countless humans through this. I know the way out.
Payment plans? Logistics? We’ll figure it out together.
This is happening. It's time.
Your most badass self is waiting for you.
Mentorship isn’t just calls—it’s your entire sobriety system.
Seven weeks of hand-in-hand support.
Plus full access to the A New, Sober You online suite of courses.
And the Unapologetically Sober journal to track your clarity, cravings, and growth.
Together, it’s the most powerful combo I’ve ever built—designed to get you out of the drinking loop and into real, lasting freedom.
Not ready to leap?
Start with just the course or the journal—get grounded, then come find me.
✨ Choose your next step:
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Book Your Clarity Call
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Explore the Online Courses
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Grab the Journal
Freedom begins with one brave yes.
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