The Deep yes
mentorship.
Not just sobriety. Rebellion. .
My 8-week elite mentorship to quit booze and redesign your life.
SIGN UP NOW - ONLY 8 SPOTS AVAILABLEWhat Makes The Deep Yes Mentorship different?
Most programs teach you how to say no to alcohol. This one teaches you how to say hell yes to yourself.
This isn’t therapy.
Slow. Vague. Endless.
This is coaching with torque.
Fast. Fierce. Real.
This is identity work.
Rebellion.
Restoration.
I created the Deep Yes Mentorship because for years, I did sobriety the way I was told. I went to meetings, got the chips, and followed the rules. And while that was a lifeline—it just wasn’t enough. I wasn’t drinking, but I wasn't thriving.
At five years sober, I relapsed. For two full years, I kept trying to swim back to the surface. But shame, silence, and smallness kept pulling me under.
Until one day, I decided to stop fighting against my drinking and start fighting for my life.
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Now I live a life that tastes like freedom—every single day.
I love my story and I love who I am.
Not in spite of my addiction—but because of it.
I want to help you break out of the box you're in
and re-write your story with power, tenderness, and pride.
This isn’t another mentorship stuffed with statistics and neurobiology, wrapped in a year-long program or buried under 90 generic videos.
That’s not what you need.
You need a roadmap back to your voice.
Your power.
Your trust.
Out of survival.
And into the deep yes of your life.
Sobriety isn’t the finish line.
It’s the first chapter of your most badass life.
WHO THIS IS FOR
This is for the high-functioning human who’s done pretending it’s “not that bad.”
Maybe you’re the mom who puts everyone else first—and hasn’t felt like herself in years.
The exec who crushes it all day—then disappears into the bottle by 8 p.m.
The woman who keeps saying “tomorrow,” while her body keeps breaking down.
You’re not crashing—but alcohol’s still behind the wheel.
And you’re done handing it the keys.
You don’t need to hit rock bottom to name the truth:
Alcohol is stealing your voice. Your shine. Your life.
And you’re done letting it.
I built the Deep Yes Mentorship for the ones who’ve tried all they could, on their own.
The ones who’ve tried to cut back, pace themselves, play it smart. Tried to moderate—but ended up marinating in shame.
This is for the overachievers and the caregivers.
The quietly unraveling and the already wrecked.
The ones who’ve worn the mask so long, they forgot who the hell they are underneath.If you’re still reading, then some part of you already knows:
This isn’t freedom. This isn’t sustainable.
And you didn’t survive all this shit to live a half-ass life.It’s time to stop negotiating with alcohol—and start choosing you.
Because nothing changes until you do.
It's time to stop abandoning yourself.
What You’ll Experience
This isn’t just about “not drinking.”
It’s about not needing to escape the life you built.
Inside this mentorship, you’ll...→ Understand why you drink—through your patterns and story.
→ Learn to ride cravings without caving in
→ Reclaim your mornings. Your mind. Your voice.
→ Discover who you are without the drink.
→ Learn to navigate social life—sober, confident, and proud.
→ Become someone you trust. Always.Because the real goal isn’t just to stop drinking.
It’s to stop abandoning yourself.
To burn the old rules.
And rebuild a life that finally feels like yours.
The 8-Week Framework
Where it stops being about the wine—and starts being about the truth
This isn’t just about quitting alcohol. It’s about reclaiming the version of you who never needed it.
Over 8 potent weeks, we move through my signature framework that rewires your mindset, rebuilds your power, and reshapes your story—
from survival mode to full-bodied freedom.
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The Reframe
Burn the script. Name the truth. Say the Deep Yes.
We begin by destroying the lies you’ve been living—
the “I’m fine,” the “It’s not that bad,” the pretending.
Because you can’t change what you’re still defending.
And I know—you’re done defending the life that’s breaking you.
It’s time to tell the truth.
It’s time to say the Deep Yes.
The Rebuild
Create safety. Build tools. Reclaim your damn life.
Sobriety isn’t just about saying no.
It’s about building a life you actually want to live.
One that feels solid. Sane. Safe.
One where your nervous system exhales for the first time in years.
This is where your life starts to rise—
and finally begins to feel like yours.
The Revolution
Embody your power. Own your freedom. Lead yourself.
No more negotiating with the voice that wants to disappear.
No more buying your own excuses.
This is the moment you step into the identity that’s been waiting for you—
the one who doesn’t need the buzz to feel alive.
This is where you stop running.
And start rising.
95% of my clients get sober within the 8-week container of my mentorship.
Because this isn’t talk therapy. It’s transformation. And I’ve got skin in the game.
I want you sober.
I want you happy.
I want you free.
I will walk with you every step of the way.
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SIGN UP NOW – SPOTS ARE LIMITEDWHAT YOU GET: THE DEEP YES VALUE STACK
The internal shifts? Massive. But they don’t happen by magic. I built this mentorship with real structure, daily support, and radical strategy—designed to meet you in both the mess and the momentum.
Here’s everything you get inside the 8-week Deep Yes Mentorship.
Eight Weekly 1:1 Coaching Sessions with Me AMAN I WANT TO CHANGE THIS FONT TO THE ONE THAT IS BELOW, IN THE LOVE ADDICTION + CODEPENDENCY. LOWERCAP AND HIGHCAP AND EASIER TO READ.
High-impact, no-bullshit Zoom calls.
Not check-ins—transformations. Radical clarity. Custom strategy.
Backed by a framework I’ve perfected over the last 10 years.
Built for breakthroughs.
Daily Voice Note Coaching (Mon–Fri)
I’m in your pocket. For real.
Daily voice notes. Instant gut checks. Unfiltered truth bombs when you need them most.
It’s white-glove, high-touch support via WhatsApp—no other coach does it like this. This is the magic my clients swear by. And it changes everything.
The New Sober You Course Suite (Lifetime Access!)
Your personal sober online course library—on demand.
Trauma-informed. Identity-rebuilding.
Video, audio, prompts, and tools that don’t just inspire you—
they rewire you. This is the shift that sticks.
The Craving Crusher Toolkit
Tactical tools and embodiment practices to ride out cravings.
Learn to ride the wave without losing yourself.
Regulate your nervous system. Reclaim your power.
No white-knuckling, no shame—just tools that work.
The 90-Day Unapologetically Sober Journal
Because this isn’t just healing—it’s a reintroduction to yourself.
This journal will take you through a 90-day reconnection to the most important person in your life: you. Here, being self-centered
gets you a gold star.
Customized Tools, Rituals + Assignments
We’ll end with a full-body integration session to break it all down:
What shifted. What’s still sticky.
And what you’re ready to burn to the ground.
Not because you have to.
Because you f*cking can.
Client case studies
Danielle
Danielle came to me clear on one thing: she didn’t want to quit drinking forever—just hit pause long enough to detox her mind and body. We got her there.
She strung together months of sobriety, felt better than she had in years, and then made the call to try drinking again. I supported her fully—because I meet clients exactly where they are.
But within weeks, she came back with crystal clarity: nothing she gained from those drinks compared to what she had in her sober chapter.
Today, Siena is grounded, glowing, and clear-headed by choice—not obligation. She’s not just sober. She’s awake. And she’s never going back.
Graham
Graham was a tenured Ivy League professor, brilliant and respected—but privately spiraling. He knew the science. He understood exactly what alcohol was doing to his body. And still, he couldn’t stop. The recent divorce had left him hollow and isolated, clinging to beer as a coping mechanism and sinking into a depression he couldn’t outthink. His mind, once his sharpest weapon, had turned on him—convinced him there was no way out.
But inside our work, something cracked open. He didn’t lose his intellect—he expanded it. We untangled the obsession, rewired the inner monologue, and built a new kind of strength. The kind that lives in the body.
Today, he’s alcohol-free, rooted, present—and finally feels like the man his credentials always said he was.
Jennifer
Jennifer was in her late thirties, desperately trying to “health” her way out of drinking. Yoga. Green juice. Therapy. Even AA. She gave it everything—but had never gotten results. Because for her, drinking wasn’t just a habit. It was the glue holding together her travel plans, her social circle, her sense of self.
Inside our eight-week mentorship, she uncovered that fear, and started to rebuild—gently, without shame.
One night, she texted me: “I crushed a m***cking craving...I feel so good about riding the wave...This strength is so empowering...Fck yes.” That moment? That was the beginning.
Today, she’s 1.5 years sober. Not white-knuckling it—owning it. She’s loving her life, and the new identity she's built, sober and free.
READY? LET’S MAKE IT REAL.
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Step 1
Fill out the Application
Say the thing you’ve been scared to admit out loud.This is your first yes.
Step 2
Book Your Clarity Call
Real talk. No pressure.
Just truth, connection, and a clear next step.
Step 3
If it’s a fit → contract + payment
No fluff. No chase. If we’re aligned, we move.
Step 4
You + Me. One-on-One.
This is where the shift begins. You don’t go back after this.
What is This Clarity Call?
(aka The LFG Call)
Once you fill out your simple application, we hop on a call. Let’s be real—getting on the phone can feel scary. But this isn’t small talk.
This is the moment you stop lying to yourself.
The most honest conversation you’ve had about your drinking—maybe ever.
No judgment. No pressure. Just truth.
About what’s really keeping you stuck,
and what freedom could feel like when you finally say yes.
We call it the LFG Call for a reason.
Because if it’s time,
you’ll know.
And if it’s not—
you’ll still walk away proud, clear, and honest.
Let’s f*cking go.
this isn't a cookie-cutter program
It’s a full-body yes to your life.
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Because once you stop drinking, here’s what happens:
Your sleep deepens. Your mornings clear.
Your thinking sharpens. Your presence shifts.
Your standards rise—including for you.
You stop second-guessing.
You stop burning out to prove you're fine.
You start trusting your voice.
You start living—not just performing.
This mentorship rewires the habits under the drinking.
It clears the static so you can actually hear your own brilliance again.
It doesn’t just help you stop. It helps you rise.
If you’re high-functioning but secretly stuck,
this is your next move.
Not because you’re broken—
but because you're tired of pretending you're fine.
What happens after the 8 weeks?
By the end of 8 weeks, most clients have the structure to walk forward in sobriety—with some choosing biweekly or monthly check-ins to stay anchored. Some don't even need that. Yes, the mentorship is that good.
But for others, being sober is just the beginning.
This is where the real work begins.
Because once the drinking stops, the deeper truth shows up. The heartbreak. The toxic ties. The codependency and self-abandonment that had you pouring the wine in the first place.
Welcome to The Reckoning.
An expanded mentorship path.
Love Addiction + Codependency
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Break the cycle of chasing, fixing, and performing.
Rewire your need for approval. Reclaim your damn self.
Because choosing you first? That’s the revolution.
Boundaries, Baby
Learn the difference between walls and real power.
Say no without guilt—and mean it. Because if your boundaries cost you your peace, they’re not boundaries—they’re just survival.
And I know—you’re done just surviving.
Identity Rebuild + Integration
Strip the roles. Find you.
Set higher standards for love and safety.
Write a new story—rooted in self-trust and truth.
Because you’re not here to be palatable.
You’re here to be powerful as hell.
All you need to do is time Now what are you going to do with it?
SIGN UP NOW – SPOTS ARE LIMITEDTHE REAL COST.
Alcohol has cost you much more than you think.
$50 wine nights.
$100 brunch regrets.
$200 impulse buys to quiet the shame.But that’s not the real price.
It’s the mornings you lost.
The energy you burned.
The moments you missed.
The you you buried.This mentorship isn’t another expense.
It’s the moment you stop bleeding out your life into a bottle—and start building something that actually lasts.You’ve already paid in peace, presence, and power.
Now it’s time to invest in your freedom.
Freedom feels good.
It feels like coming home.
To your body. To your truth. To the real you under it all.
It feels like walking into a room without second-guessing.
Like looking in the mirror and seeing power instead of regret.
You're not doing this just to quit drinking.
You’re doing this to feel proud in your skin.
To move through the world with integrity, not apology.
To show up for the people you love—and for the human you almost forgot to become.
This mentorship isn’t about alcohol.
It’s about freedom.
The kind that feels bold, embodied, and unapologetically yours.
You deserve to feel good.
Clear. Aligned. Proud.
Not someday—now.
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What if I’m not sure I’m ready?
What if I relapse?
Do I need to quit drinking before we start?
Is this like therapy?
Can I pause or reschedule?
Is this confidential?
Is this a big investment?
Can I do this if I’m already sober?
Not theory. Not filler. Just real truth, turned into fire.
Why Pamela?
I didn’t study addiction from the outside—I survived it, decoded it, and turned it into power.
You don’t need to be guided in this delicate and important journey by a person who has textbook understanding of addiction.
You need one who lived the story.I got sober the way they say you “should.”
Five years clean. Crushing life. Checking the boxes. And then I fell.I drank again after 5 years sober. Hard.
Not because I was weak—but because my sobriety didn’t have roots.
When I came back, I came back different.
Not white-knuckling. Not performing recovery.
But rebuilding my identity from the ground up.
Now I teach sobriety as a power move—not a punishment.
Let Me Show You What’s PossibleI meet you where you are: High-achieving. High-functioning.
But secretly unraveling (I was you, by the way...)
No shame. No labels (unless you want them.)
Just radical honesty, spiritual fire, and mentorship that actually works.
PROOF IT WORKS
Marlene
Marlene was a powerhouse Gen X exec whose identity was welded to wine—alcohol was how she coped, connected, and crushed it in her corporate, male-driven environment But inside, she was unraveling. She had tried to quit before, but nothing stuck—until we worked together.
At first, she resisted every damn tool. She cried on every call. She had a hard time letting the process take place. But she kept showing up. She trusted me. She did the work. And something shifted. The space between drinks stretched. Her self-trust returned.
Three months later, she’s flying sober, texting me from a travel lounge with orange juice in hand and power in her voice. Still magnetic.
But now? Free.
Eli
A respected attorney with decades of weed use under his belt, Eli believed his nightly habit was “harmless.” But behind the polished exterior was a man depleted—emotionally exhausted, spiritually empty, and afraid that sobriety might not work on someone like him.
Together, we rewired that belief. We separated the voice of addiction from his own, and for the first time, he heard himself clearly.
Six months in, the smoke is gone—and in its place is joy, clarity, and presence. His proudest moment? Holding his newborn and knowing they’ve never smelled weed on his clothes. That’s the man he is now.
Camille
She lived in a manicured, high-society bubble, sipping cocktails in silence while shame swallowed her whole. Camille told me she was broken—too far gone to quit. Her husband said she wasn’t “that bad,” and for years, she believed him over herself. Until she didn’t.
Inside our work, she reclaimed her voice, her power, her authority. She stopped white-knuckling her life and started living it. Now, she walks into the same champagne-soaked gatherings with clear eyes and full self-trust. Her marriage is different. Her relationship with her adult son is healed.
A year into her journey, she’s not just sober - she’s sovereign.
You don’t need a rock bottom.
you need a hell yes
Choose Your Path
I’m Ready for the deep yes Mentorship
I’m ready for The Deep Yes.
No more waiting in the wings.
No more circling the truth.
It’s time to rise and love my life again.
JOIN THE MENTORSHIP NOWI'll start with the New Sober You Courses.
If the leap feels too big, that’s okay—
What matters is that you begin.
One step. One truth. One breath closer to you.
the Moment You choose yourself
You’ve done “just one drink.”
You’ve done the Day Ones.
You’ve done the hiding, the explaining, the shame that no one sees.
This is where it ends.
This isn’t a soft landing.
It’s a full-body yes to the life you were meant to lead.
If you’re ready to meet the version of you who doesn’t need to numb—
Book the call. Let’s begin.
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95% of my clients get sober.
It's time to design a new beginning.
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