You started drinking
to
But now you're trapped
Let's get you
the hell out
no. more. negotiating.
You said you wouldn’t drink tonight.
But you’re sipping, anyway. Telling yourself it's fine.
And deep down, you know: This isn't who I want to be.
You’re high-functioning. Exhausted. And faking it so well it's almost believable.
But it’s costing you—your energy, your fire, your self-respect.
Here's the truth no one told you:
You don’t have to hit rock bottom. You don’t need a label.
And you sure as hell don’t need anyone's permission.
Sobriety isn't punishment. It's your power move.
And it starts with one honest whisper: I can't do this anymore.
That's not failure, baby. That's the beginning of your comeback.
The kind that changes everything.
I'm Pamela
AND I DON'T DRINK.
I got sober in 2009. And even this far from my last drink, I still call myself an alcoholic—not because I have to, but because I own it.
I’ve spoken on stages, helped thousands of students, led sobriety retreats, hosted a podcast. I've got the sexy certifications, too.
But you’re not here for the résumé.
You’re here because I’ve lived this.
Fifteen years in.
Five of them stuck in “good-girl” sobriety.
Then a brutal two-year relapse that shattered me.
Eventually, I came back louder, rebellious, and rewired.
I didn't just get sober again. I built a new kind of sobriety.
One rooted in power, not punishment. Grounded. Embodied. Unapologetically mine.
Now, I'm here to help you build your own.
So if you’re still pretending it’s fine…Let’s burn that script down and write one that changes your life.
It's time.
how to work with me.
COURSES
Self-guided recovery
These aren't your typical sobriety courses. They're the raw, real, no-bullshit lessons I’ve learned over 15 years in recovery. Three powerful courses you can do at your own pace, from laptop or phone.
→ Start where you are.
MENTORSHIPS
1:1 Private Coaching
Whether you're Sober Curious or Ready to Quit—there's a mentorship journey for you.
No shame. No labels. Just radical support from someone who’s been there, and knows the way out.
→ You don’t have to do this alone.
CLARITY CALL
Let's get on the phone
A short phonecall can shift everything.
Sobriety is not just about the drink. It's a lifestyle shift, a power move, a whole new identity. Sober curious or ready to quit? Not sure?
→ Let's hop on a call.
95% of clients get sober within 8 weeks
Is this for you?
Yes—if you're done settling.
You’ve been told that quitting drinking means losing something. The fun. The freedom. Your edge.
So you keep sipping—just enough to numb, not enough to fall apart. You call it "self-care." A little reward. A way to relax.
But what if that drink isn't soothing you? What if it's stealing you? What if the real rebellion isn't in the glass—but in the decision to put it down?
My Badass Recovery is for those who want more. More clarity. More power. More you.
You don’t want labels. You want liberation. You don’t want to shrink. You want to burn bright.
If you’re feeling the flicker of fire—
Let's light the damn match.
Decode the Craving:
A ChatGPT guide to breaking the loop
Built to intercept the moment you say “fck it" and drink again.
These prompts help you slow down, get honest, and shift—before the pour.
THERE'S A PATH FOR YOU
Recovery Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All.
Whether you’re just starting to question your drinking or you’ve been sober a while and feel stuck… you belong here.
This is your permission slip to begin again. Or begin for real.
SOBER CURIOUS
You’re not sure if you’re ready to quit, but you’re tired of the noise in your head. You’re craving clarity, and self-trust; not judgment or labels.
READY TO QUIT
You’ve said I’m done—maybe quietly, maybe with a roar. You just don’t know what comes next or how to make it real. That’s where I come in.
SOBER BUT BORED
You got sober, but you’re still feeling stuck. You miss the thrill, the spark, the damn. Let’s make sobriety what makes you feel proud, empowered and alive.
WHEN YOU SAY YES...
- You stop waking up in shame and start waking up with a pulse.
- You quit Googling “how to stop drinking” and start living like someone who already did.
- You reclaim your body—not to look good, but to feel dangerously alive in it.
- You remember who the hell you are and start feeling proud of yourself.
This isn’t some cute little wellness pivot.
This is a reckoning.
A radical reclamation.
And it begins the second you drop the performance and tell the truth.
Say yes.
Say it messy. Say it scared.
but say it.
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